A Practical US Guide
When someone passes, getting access isn't simple.
Phones stay locked. Emails can't be opened. Subscriptions keep charging. And most families aren't prepared for any of it.
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Most people assume their next of kin will simply "get into" their accounts. The truth, in the United States and globally, is more difficult than almost anyone expects.
iPhones don't unlock for relatives.
Apple does not bypass passcodes — even with a death certificate. Without a Legacy Contact set up in advance, the device stays locked indefinitely.
Emails require legal escalation.
Google, Microsoft and Yahoo each have their own process. Probate documents are typically needed. Many requests are refused or take months.
Subscriptions keep charging.
Streaming, cloud storage, software, recurring deliveries — none of them stop on their own. Families often discover them months later.
Photos and memories disappear.
Cloud-stored photo libraries vanish when accounts are closed without recovery — sometimes the only copies of a lifetime of images.
Crypto and 2FA are unforgiving.
Wallet keys, authenticator apps, and SMS-bound second factors don't transfer. If they aren't documented, the assets behind them are simply gone.
Executors spend months untangling it.
Even with full legal authority, executors describe the digital portion of an estate as the hardest, most opaque part of their work.
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Access After Death — Practical Guide (US Edition)
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Common questions.
Can I unlock my deceased relative's iPhone?
Not by default. Apple does not provide passcode bypass, even for next of kin. The only reliable route is the Apple Legacy Contact, which must be set up by the device owner before death. Without it, executors usually need a court order — and even then, the encrypted data may not be recoverable.
How do I get into a deceased person's email account in the United States?
It depends on the provider. Google offers an "inactive account manager" for proactive setup; without it, executors must submit a death certificate, ID, and often probate documents. Microsoft and Yahoo have similar but stricter processes. Most requests take weeks and many are refused.
Do online subscriptions cancel automatically after someone dies?
No. Subscriptions continue charging until the linked card is closed or the account is manually cancelled. Many families discover ongoing charges months after the death — for streaming services, cloud storage, software, and recurring deliveries.
Are digital assets covered by a US will?
Only sometimes. A will can express wishes about digital assets, but it cannot grant access — service providers' terms of use override most instructions. Practical access requires structured preparation outside the will, ideally referenced from it.
What's the single most useful thing I can do today?
Set up legacy contacts on Apple and Google, list your most critical accounts, and leave secure access instructions somewhere a trusted person can find them. Tools like Fideby exist precisely so this doesn't sit in a notebook in a drawer.